7. Beware of Evolutionary Psychology

In the early nineties Barkow, Tooby and Cosmides (two anthropologists and a psychologist, respectively) coined the phrase “Evolutionary Psychology” (I’ll refer to it hereafter as “EP”).  Since then, modern layperson ideas about human sexuality and sexual psychology and behavior have been increasingly colored, and greatly misled, by its notions.  Its success appears to be due to the way that its claims remarkably reflect our current experience, particularly the perplexing gender differences constantly chafing between the moving parts of heterosexual relationship.  It just seems to help us make sense of the troublesome friction while offering the reassuring backdrop of s-c-i-e-n-c-e (ah, that’s how you spell relief!).  Even if it doesn’t change anything tangible, there is palpable consolation in the regions of the mind that abhor the vacuum of uncertainty.

Maybe that is why such a poor brand of science has gotten away with so much and traveled so far.  Really.  Digging into the substance of EP, one will find people with a decent grasp of the science of evolution.  AND, you’ll find that, once they leap from the well-anchored springboard of evolutionary biology, all bets are off.  Way off.  Once they finish with impressive speeches on the hard science of evolution and begin to spin off their own psychological theories, they immediately exceed the sphere of influence of scientific gravity, as though the firmness of the launchpad can justify just about any projectile (vomit).  Like we wouldn’t notice.  And, unfortunately, we don’t.  At first glance.  Which is why we have to take a closer look.

EP proposes that human psychological evolution lags behind our genetics which encode our instinctual responses so that, in their words, “Our modern skulls house a stone age mind” (one that evolved during our hunter-gatherer days).  Yet, in the domain of sexual psychology, their postulations actually do not reflect the likely conditions of the stone age (beginning roughly three and a half million years ago) as much as they reflect the social conditions developing since the agricultural revolution (beginning a mere ten thousand years ago).  In the former, survival depended upon tribal community while the latter fostered the nuclear patriarchal family arrangement at the heart of developed society today.

The basic assumption behind EP’s psycho-sexual Big Ideas is fundamentally flawed.  EP says human males had to mate with as many females as possible to reproduce, while females had to be sexually persnickety, reserving her selection to the mate most likely to provide for her offspring– so that explains why men are just interested in sex while women are interested in devotion, commitment, security.  But this conundrum of sex versus provision is only an issue in a situation where individuals function autonomously (i.e. modern-day, post-agricultural, nuclear-family economy) and a woman bearing children without someone around (to help bring home the bacon and change the diapers) is a tremendously weighty burden.  In a tribal community, the whole tribe provides for its children, thus not depending solely on the paternal motivations of a dutiful father figure.  This would actually help explain why men have not co-evolved along those lines and, most importantly, would point to a very different likelihood around the evolution of female sexuality, thus altering our debilitating, provincial assumptions about it.

So you can see how the evolutionary argument is all twisted up.  Most of EP’s pontifications on sexual psychology stem from this erroneous position and, therefore, all its conclusions are highly suspicious.  Designed by people with vision limited to the distorted data close at hand (observations of modern sexual behavior that’s been ardently socialized for a few thousand years), the result is a highly distorted system of thought that reaches well beyond its grasp (extrapolating from those observations to reach conclusions about early human evolution).  This ends up as nothing more than confirmation bias, which is also called very bad science.

This is a topic that brings me much distress, as I hope it will to you (sorry!), because such banter– and you see it everywhere: men’s journals, women’s mags, psychology publications, advice columns– perpetuates mistaken beliefs about the nature of our sexuality (particularly women) and who we are.  Perpetuating these mistakes continues the heterosexual relational strife because, by sinking us deeper into the differences that divide, it prevents us from arriving at conclusions that reflect greater truth and, as a by-product, achieve greater harmony.

 

 

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  1. My guess is that initially before communal hunter-gatherer tribes, there were simply individuals doing their own thing. Times were easier, minus the lousy housing conditions and food collection and I guess an occasional woolly mammoth coming over to visit. People had sex cause it felt good. None of this “let’s make babies” bullshit that continues to be floated around. People have sex because it feels good. Now. Then. No different. That somehow women overcome that interest, in the interest of locating good providers, is the largest pile of white-men shit I could ever have imagined. This child rearing mentality is a societal invention, of very recent (in the scale of things) origin. The fact that modern idiots believe in it is actually no different than them believing in santa claus, or better yet, jesus rising from the dead. Its all designed to promulgate a particular headspace, that, in this case, is aiming at maintaining order. Really letting people know that their sexuality is free and available and multi-directional and multifarious is the ultimate danger to a well organized and well greased society. That knowledge, and acting from it, will single handedly destroy society and all of its rules and regulations. EP was and is designed to bolster the status quo, to protect civilization from “decay”, to keep people from really experiencing their deep level of sexual energy and power. Its a total sham, and a complete lie. There is absolutely no truth in it or to it, except the parts that they stole from real biology and real evolutionary law. Put it on the burning ghat and torch it.

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